Two nice girls here
You need to think long & hard about why you are giving the OL man the false impression.
All spite aside stop trying to justify why this confused little girl here did cheat. She cheated. That's that. No justification needed. She is an unfaithful and inconsiderate person when it comes to her SO's feelings. So her SO did this and that, blah blah blah. If it were that bad then you would've left. Look I'm not trying to place more hurt in your life as you already seem to be hurt. But the best advice you'll ever receive for this situation is to leave him. Let this poor soul go and go about your life while he heals up and searches for someone who TRUELY loves him and will remain FAITHFUL until their bond is over.
To hard to explain. You'll just have to find ou.
Anyway I wrote her a letter saying that I didn't put him up to saying that, that I wasn't even there at the time but that I was sorry anyway for having it come out wrong and just explained to her that just like her I had my insecurities also. Anyway it was a really nice letter just saying that i'm not trying to take him away from his daughter or anything and that I wasn't an awful person like his other ex was (who also gave me hell)...
So I have a guy friend that I've been known since high school, so for about ten years now and we were close in a group back then. He's the flirting type but he's only had serious girlfriends before. Back then I had a puppy crush on him but I got over it when I graduated and saw him as a friend only. Then we drifted apart for 3 years because he got into a serious relationship, so I only saw him a couple of times on my birthdays, which he brought her along. After that he contacted me again and we kept going out as friends but not so often, it's been 3 years now, I've had a couple of boyfriends but I've never fallen in love and for some reason he's the only person I can really be myself with. When we drink together we make out like crazy but then we pretend nothing has happened so we never do anythjng about it. WE have been talking more lately and it feels a little different now, but I really don't know what to do because about a year ago he admitted he still occasionally sleeps with his ex. I don't know if he still does but I have no idea how to deal with it. I think I love him but I don't know if I should say something or not. HELP!
one on the left is in perfect position
she is lovely.
she is the sexiest young girl i've ever seen!
When might the fussing cease though, given that she clearly has been wounded emotionally by being done wrong by guys in the past? I hate to be appear evasive/unkind here, but I wonder how many "hoops" this guy would really need to jump through to prove himself adequately.
She even called my geeky t-shirt ""cute"" Best way to win over a geek!
too much makeup. Rest is fine:)
For a couple of weeks she would pass by me "accidentally" and make small talk. I pretended it didnt bother me what she did (lead me on) but it really, really hurt.
Either way this is obviously over. 7 months is not that much either
nevermind I won't comment on this...just do yourself a favor and figure out what YOU really WANT before involving and hurting more people.