Your sister and her H had different understandings about where and how to draw the line in relation to communication with the opposite sex. That was the real problem at hand. He could very easily have ignored facebook friends requests of the opposite sex - if he had agreed to the view that it was the appropriate thing to do. He could also very easily have communicated to the women who contacted him that it wasn't appropriate for him to communicate with them given that they had expressed that they wanted more than just a friendship, and he was married. That's what people in relationships do when they receive 'unwanted' attention - it isn't any different on facebook than it is in real life. It is also perfectly possible to make yourself 'unsearchable' on facebook, to ignore friend requests, to disable your wall, or to block people from sending you messages. Your sister's H was unwilling to do that, which your sister in turn did not want to accept. That discrepancy is the problem - not the medium. The same applies to your son. He and her gf had different understanding of where the boundaries were.
reminds me of lily from himym
I am not. I don't think any of us really are wishing failure.
Wowza! Look at that magical tummy area just above that bottom piece. My God!
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I come back Sunday and text her she responds. I call around 730 no answer so I send a question mark text around bed time. Call the next day around 930 no answer. Call the next day after work no answer. I text her to please call me. She calls. She says I’m being weird. Did she forget how she was acting on labor day? Basically this becomes a conversation of saying I am being needy and maybe our personalities don’t mesh. She’s like I don’t know what to tell you I can’t help how I feel. She says she started to feel ready to be intimate with me again and then I pul this. I don’t respect her feelings that thinks had to happen on my clock. She had to grow close to me again and I didn’t let that happen. Shhe said she doesn’t like to feel forced into anything. And she still wants to run to me when I see her out. Blah Blah. I’m crushed and lets face it what she says does make sense. But then shes like a bunch of red flags are going up for her. She thinks maybe I put the stuff in my body that her ex did and could turn out controlling like him. Ridiculous. It was never any of my business what she does we never had a exclusive talk. Its just people hanging out blah blah. I did make things complicated but with good intentions. I was looking out for someone who would never look out for me and opened pandoras box with her.
She's cute, despite the goofy face. Great belly, eh, bellyfan?
well i know that i like it... incredible toned abs, what a little cutie.
I've heard that the big 3 are sex, money, and family.
Corey Wayne is giving you that advice because he views dating as a zero sum power game -- if you give & she gets, you lose. A good relationship means everybody wins.
I know I'm lucky in that my BF and I can always go to one another and say what we are thinking (though it's harder for him). But try try try try to keep this face to face.