Okay ive been dating somebody little over a month but my feelings are pretty strong and he has expressed to me his are too. We normally text everyday and see eachother at least 2 or 3 times a week. I am divorced with a child and im the first woman he has dated with a child so it does make it harder to see eachother. I just got back from a work trip and we saw each other the night before. Well I constantly thought about him the whole time. I got back late last night and was hoping to see him tonight I just figured he was going to watch wrestling with his buddies on Monday night so that's what I told him and also my son took a late nap so I let him know that I didn't know when he'd be going to bed but I'd text him when he did. He has to get up at 4am for work so I texted him he could come if he wanted I just put my son to bed. He responded that he'd come for a bit if the coast was clear. I told him to wait 10 min and that I hated this sneaking around then he responded he was just going to stay home because he couldn't function at work on 4 hours of sleep. I responded it was ok but im disappointed. Not only because if it was me and I didn't have my son the first thing I would have done was drive to see him. Its been a week. I also am feeling like im not a priority. He mentioned the blackhawks game is on at 9pm tomorrow and its his favorite team and ge watches every game. But I think its BS he is using the no sleep as an excuse when he stays up to watch the game and WWE monday nights. I felt like I was pretty important because he
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The signals aren't even that mixed. It sounds like in regards to actions she's been pretty clear about her lack of interest. Sure, you hang out very occasionally.
we need more pics of her on here
You've been together a year. If it were 3 months or so fine...but a year, usually most people have said I love yous by then. But you also have the clues about this being his issue and pattern based on his prior relationships. Sometimes we think "he'll be different with me" when it's not about you. It's about him and no matter who the woman is, he may very well never overcome this.
It is only in men's minds that younger women are willing. They see one example or a handful of examples and seize on it with a death grip... never mind how uncommon it is and how grossed out we are by their unwanted attention.