I feel like I've seen more of her
Originally Posted by forms
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It's nice to be understanding but if doing so requires you to give up expecting to be treated with respect, like the loving & concerned adult that you are, then I'd say your understanding is doing no one any good. And what are you getting in return: you're being nicer and more accommodating than anyone has a right to expect from another person, and your repayment is to be called upon as a computer repairman? She doesn't have to account for herself? Is that because she's such a pathetic specimen that she's incapable of doing so, or is that because you're being so blindly understanding and accepting of her flakiness that you've forgotten to insist on being treated as you deserve to be?
korean. great people.
On reading some of the threads here, family unity caught my eye. I have a girlfriend who tells me that I spend more time than I should with my family ( parents, brothers, sometimes cousins) The truth of the matter though, is that I don't- and most of the time that I spend with them are for my dinners. Anyhow, one day she became extremely irritated at me for it and wanted me to skip famliy time for girlfriend time. That may not be so unreasonable, but I see her everyday and the amount of time I spend with my famliy is almost only exclusive to dinners and sometimes weekends. Is it a turnoff for girls if their guy spends time with their family or has a healthy, stable relationship with their family? I suspect that maybe it's because she does not get along well with her folks, which is the case. But be frank with me, and tell me if I am at fault here? Because of this situation, some distance was created between us and we haven't seen each other as often as we used to. There are times when it feels like if I end up marrying her, I would be "restricted" from seeing my family or having the same relationship I share with them right now..